Kiss better: The guide to the professional kiss

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A passionate kiss is at least as hot as a spontaneous quickie, if not hotter – at least that’s what most women would say if you asked them. But why is kissing so important to women and why do people kiss at all? The most important questions on the subject, surprising facts and kissing tips you probably haven’t heard yet.

How important is kissing?

Many couples can remember their first kiss better than their first time having sex. This could be due to the fact that kissing makes you high in the truest sense of the word. Because a heady mix of the hormones serotonin, dopamine and adrenaline is released. This explains why sometimes you just can’t keep your lips apart. By the way, kisses are usually even more important to women than to men. Because all senses are addressed, it has a very intimate effect.

Can a bad kiss prevent a relationship?

Women unconsciously find out through a kiss whether a partner is a good match for them – in terms of genetic factors, according to the results of a British study by the University of Oxford. According to the study, women are mostly attracted to a foreign genetic code for immunity. It is an indication of whether the kisser is a potential candidate for a relationship with healthy children. In a survey conducted by the University at Albany in New York, 66% of women said they ended a budding relationship after a bad first kiss.

How important is making out in a relationship?

Kissing isn’t just crucial when it comes to dating. Even in long relationships, lip service is the best way to express affection and strengthen the bond. 90 % of all women find intimate kisses very important, even in the course of a partnership.

A study by the British Heart Foundation shows that 18% of all married couples often do not kiss for a whole week. This is fatal, because studies have also shown that The frequency with which couples kiss is directly related to their satisfaction in the partnership. By the way, this does not apply to the frequency of sex. Kissing therefore seems to be much more important for the relationship than sexual intercourse. It is quasi sex in miniature with happiness guarantee.

6 surprising facts about making out

We now know how important kissing is for finding a partner and for the happiness of a relationship. But that’s not all that kissing can do by any means.

Kissing reduces stress
After a stressful day at work, you shouldn’t turn on the TV, but first kiss passionately. Because kissing is healthy. Researchers at the Oxford University proved the stress-reducing effect of smooching. For the study Asked over 50 couples to kiss more than usual for 6 weeks. The result of the blood tests: Participants were significantly less stressed than before the test. Kissing reduces the stress hormone cortisol in the blood and promotes optimism.

Kisses in public are not only proof of love
Making out in public is not only a sign that your partner wants to prove how serious she is… An study, published in the Journal of Sex Research found that the motivation behind kissing in public is often different. 50% of all women surveyed said that they wanted to make their ex-boyfriends or other women jealous. But men are no better: we want to prove our checker qualities in front of other guys by kissing in public.

Why you tilt your head to the right when kissing
study, published in the journal Scientific Reports showed that 74% of people tilt their head to the right when kissing. Reason: The hand with which we write determines in which direction we tilt the head. But even if you’re left-handed, chances are you’re leaning to the right because you’re mirroring the other person’s head tilt.

This is why you close your eyes when kissing
Because it is more romantic? Wrong! The answer is simple: the brain is unable to couple the sensations of kissing with visual information. This is the result of a study, published in the journal Journal of Experimental Psychology . People who keep their eyes open when kissing cannot concentrate on taste, smell and feeling.

The most common reasons for unsuccessful kisses

Okay, if a bad kiss can prevent an affair or relationship, it’s important to address what constitutes a lousy kiss. The most common criteria for the lousy mouth act:

Your teeth can prevent the kiss
Your teeth can make sure the kiss doesn’t happen in the first place. According to a Study, published in the journal Evolutionary Psychology healthy-looking teeth are more important to most women than the appearance of their lips, face and body. So the first kiss stands or falls with well-groomed teeth.

Your aftershave can spoil the kiss
If you plan to kiss your beloved, you should apply aftershave sparingly beforehand. Because the scent competes with your body odor and therefore confuses women subconsciously. The secret tip: Drink a drink with anise or chew licorice before the date. The scent is said to stimulate blood flow in the vagina. Whether it really works? You have to try it yourself!

The last meal leaves a bad impression
Clearly: the kebab, fish roll or garlic noodles are not the best choice before an upcoming kiss. Unless you have eaten the meal together.

Your tongue can send a woman running for the hills
The drill, the propeller, the washcloth – any of these tongue performances do not go down well with women. It is advisable to approach it carefully at first. But that doesn’t mean you should only use the tip of your tongue. How best to proceed, read below.

How to tell that a woman wants to be kissed?

There is hardly anything more unpleasant than a woman who turns away when you want to kiss her. You can tell if the lady is ready for lip contact by the following signs.

She’s looking for closeness: “When there’s not an inch between you, it’s clear,” says sex researcher Dr. Ingelore Ebberfeld. This is still too risky for you? Then look deep into the eyes of the lady of your heart. If she doesn’t smile, look down or turn her head away now, the time isn’t ripe yet.

She is looking for support: She seems nervous and plays with her clothes? She strokes her own arm, thighs or runs her hand through her hair? These are so-called autoerotic touches and signs that she is not averse to a physical approach. If her lips redden, enlarge and open slightly, this is a sure sign.

She is looking for eye contact: Intense and prolonged eye contact is definitely a sign of interest. “If her pupils enlarge when she does this, it reveals that she is excited,” says Ebberfeld. Even better: The lady looks conspicuously often at your lips. But she certainly doesn’t want to look at them.

Finger away: At these signals you recognize that a woman has no interest

Training kissing: How to approach the first kiss?

Once you have identified all the signs, you may try your luck. Start with deep eye contact. Approach her and enjoy the expectant tingle before your lips touch. If she longs for your lips, she may make the first move now. Otherwise, the rule is: don’t go all the way right away. First, carefully touch your lips to those of your beloved. Never give her the feeling that you want to determine the situation. By the way: if she pulls away from you, even though all the signals were pointing to “kiss me”, this doesn’t necessarily mean that you don’t have a chance – maybe it’s just not the right time yet.

Where do women want to be kissed?

Apart from the lips, almost all women find it erotic to be kissed on the neck and nape of the neck. Sensitive kisses on the chest, décolleté, inner thighs, arms and other erogenous zones open a direct path to your most intimate hotspots. Kisses on forehead, eyes and cheeks cause less erotic feelings for her. But you create trust and prove your affection. A kiss on the hand, which used to be a sign of submission, is now rather antiquated and funny. Kissing their fingertips or wrist, on the other hand, gives many women a comforting shiver.

Learn to kiss better: the best tips for a hammer kiss

You can kiss already? The question is: how good? Since, as we all know, there is always room for improvement, here are the best tips for professional kissing. The beloved will hang on your lips!

The right place: Forget the quiet park bench or the romantic restaurant! The best kisses take place in noisy bars or at well-attended concerts. The noise and energy promote the adrenaline rush that pushes sexual arousal. At a concert, you can also get close to her in the best way possible. Because it’s loud, you almost have to touch her ear with your lips to talk to her – this is known to be an erogenous zone. And it is not far to her lips.

What the lips are allowed to do: You have dry lips? Then it helps if you put Vaseline on them and wipe them before the meeting. This makes the lips soft and does not leave an unpleasant film. When kissing, you should not purse your lips too much. This reminds them of kisses from grandma. Also, do not press your lips together. Just stay relaxed! 

The right tongue technique: Use your tongue wisely. It is with your tongue that you can make the most mistakes. At first just brush your lips over hers until she parts them and offers you her tongue. Always adjust the speed of the kiss to the lady. By the way, be careful with too much saliva – women are less fond of wet kisses than men are. 

What the hands do: Just let them hang? Please do not! This does not mean that you should immediately fondle the buttocks and hips. It is ideal if you touch the woman’s head with your hands. Most ladies find this romantic. Run your fingertips along her neck to her hairline and into her hair. This increases the blood flow in the scalp and causes a slight tingling sensation. By touching her during the kiss, her body releases the bonding hormone oxytocin. This increases affection, trust and can also improve orgasm. 

After the kiss: With the kissing professional the lip confession is not over when the lips separate from each other. Hold her head in your hands for a second longer and look into her eyes. Breathe out or shake your head slightly to show her how much the kiss has taken away your senses. After that, you should let go, distance yourself slightly, and pause. Because it acts like a cliffhanger. Means: she will soon long for the next sensual kiss.

Conclusion: Do not underestimate the kiss!

For many women, smooching is more important than sex and an indicator of whether you are a good match as a couple. Even in a long relationship you should not give up passionate kissing (with tongue). It strengthens the bond with her and is the best medicine for a happy relationship.

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