Porn for women: These are the sex films women like to watch the most

Have a pattern when looking for a quick distraction on porn sites? For example, scan for redheads or Latina women, cumshot movies or group orgies? Everyone has their own ideas about what a sex tape needs to be able to do to get their lust going quickly. With women it is no different than with men. Even the ladies know exactly which sex movies make your panties tingle and which leave them totally cold. We have asked around, which sex videos provide for high feelings – and the (Attention, Spoiler!) could also make you hot!

Do women really watch porn alone?

You’ve guessed it: of course women watch porn. The times when they had to be ashamed of themselves for their sexual fantasies are long gone. Women are not less curious than men, but they are less open about it (enjoy and keep silent) and get excited by other sex scenes than men. For reasons of curiosity alone, women sometimes surf porn websites (and delete their browser history afterwards – even if this is not sufficient for anonymous surfing). However, they are often put off at the first click by videos that are tailored to men’s fantasies.

What porn are women into?

But what movie does a woman choose when she’s in the mood for some visual fun? Okay, that she doesn’t watch squirt flicks with titles like “Black Cock Down” or “Clinic of Shame” goes without saying. But movies that get down and dirty (think S&M games in Fifty Shades of Grey) it may be also with pleasure sometimes.

So when does eroticism end for women and where does smut begin? One answer could be a statistic published by statistics published by Pornhub may give. The trend of users’ search results shows that ladies most often search for videos using the term “lesbians”. (For men, the term “milf” tops the hit list). In 2nd place comes “scissoring”, which refers to a lesbian play style. Only in 3rd place could a male performer come into play: Here stands the “threesome”.

But even in this category, the ladies can keep to themselves. Rank 4 indicates that some women can also like it rough. Here we have the “big black penis” (so “Black Cock Down” after all)?). But this search query is followed by “Lesbian seduces straight woman”. You see, women prefer to watch other women having sex.

What distinguishes porn for women from porn for men?

So does that mean all women who watch lesbian sex movies are secretly gay? Nope! While statistics do not distinguish between heterosexual and homosexual users, it is unlikely that most ladies who browse porn websites are lesbians. So the inclination towards lesbian porn must have something to do with the portrayal of sex. This is exactly the difference between porn for women and porn for men. Most men care less about plot, authenticity and characters in porn than women do.

Men are concerned with a purposeful presentation that gets to the point quickly and not with an artificialization of the act. Women, on the other hand, are interested in an emotional portrayal, the plot should evolve. In lesbian porn, tender touching, intense kissing and intimate sex play a big role, while in porn that conforms to the common in-out cliché, lovemaking is wild and uncontrolled. However, this does not mean that women are only into flowery porn.

Hardcore scenes are allowed, but there are no screams of pain and neither the woman nor the man is humiliated. In sex movies that women like, both sexes have the same rights – unless she is into SM.

How to make her watch porn together with you

If you watch porn together instead of alone, you may even be able to do something for your relationship. Because sex movies not only inspire new sexual adventures, they also reveal to your partner which practices turn your loved one on. In addition, the shared voyeurism unites – provided that you both enjoy it.

In order for you to watch together with your partner, you have to proceed delicately. Ask her what she thinks of the show and explain that she can choose the film according to her ideas.

If she agrees, you have already won a lot. Whether your beloved is shy about admitting her preferences, you will see at the latest during the selection process: If she chooses a film that corresponds to the classic male cliché, she most likely just wants to do you a favor. Encourage her to choose a movie that she would watch on her own. 

This is what happens when you watch porn for women together

Maybe you have already looked into a movie for women yourself. Let us guess: It’s quite likely that you’ve fast-forwarded at some point and ended up swapping the flick for some standard porn, annoyed though it may be. It takes an eternity for the plot in porn for women to become tangible. The films play with subtle touches and hints, accompanied by sophisticated music. There is less screaming and moaning and hardly any dialogues, sensuality is in the first place.

For a porn evening for two this is just the right thing. After all, you should not only concentrate on the film plot, but also on your beloved – and she has time enough to slowly get your arousal going. Warning: When women’s videos get going, they really get going – and their sweetheart is quickly on 10 on the arousal scale. You’ll be surprised how different this shared video adventure is from your porn alleys.

Bottom line: women are into slow sex

No need to find out what movies your partner is secretly watching. You won’t find any potential competition there anyway. Most women are into lesbian porn because they are turned on by the emotional lovemaking – keyword: slow sex. You can learn from this preference.

You will become a better lover for your partner if you take (even more) time during lovemaking, avoid artistic sex positions and ask about your partner’s needs. If she doesn’t come out with it, ask her to choose an erotic movie for you both – if she chooses honestly, it’s the best chance to understand what really turns her on.

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