These are the 8 biggest blowjob mistakes!

Men love it like hardly any other sexual game: the blowjob, the blow music, the fellatio. No wonder, after all, oral sex satisfies quite a few male cravings: you get to watch a hot woman pamper the largest erogenous zone (with tongue and lips!) and you can also lean back and relax. Look for such a satisfying state in everyday life. Fun without effort – that’s only on the roller coaster and even there you have to stand in line. But the pleasurable time-out stands and falls with the blowjob appetite of the partner.

Many women devote less time to fellatio than men would like. Why? Perhaps because the partner does not understand the Blowjob etiquette not heeded and therefore she has lost the desire. Because many women have no problem with French sex, even like it.

Reason: They like to spoil their partner, “save” sex when they themselves are just not in the mood and – it’s just fun. However, the prerequisite is that the partner adheres to their rules of the game. But how should a man know what a woman doesn’t like and what she likes during a blowjob? So you don’t have to grope in the dark, we have compiled the 8 biggest blowjob mistakes. Even if you already do everything right: It can always be done better. Just think about the oral pleasures you could have in the future.

Blowjob mistake number 1: persuade your partner to give you a blowjob

If you put your mind to it, you can persuade your partner to give you a blowjob. What does not succeed: to make the blowjob palatable to her. But this is exactly crucial. Because only if the woman wants fellatio, you will benefit from it. Only when her lips move to the place of action of her own free will, she has fun and wants to get her hands on your best piece more often. This way you give her the exciting feeling of being able to seduce you.

When giving a voluntary blowjob, she tries hard, takes her time and plays at skillfully driving you to the brink of insanity. However, if you push her to play the flute, she’ll most likely go at it half-heartedly and pragmatically. If that’s enough for you, okay. But you won’t get the full-blown pro act that way. However, there is an ultimate trick how you can enjoy the unsolicited blowjob more often: Indulge your sweetheart more often in French, too, then she’ll definitely want to return the favor. 

Blowjob fail number 2: push her head into pole position

That’s right, we’ve seen it in countless porn movies: the man’s hand rhythmically pressing the woman’s head down while giving a blowjob. Whether women like it? Certainly not! First of all, you’re not at a hip-hop concert, secondly, she doesn’t want to feel like a masturbator made flesh, and thirdly, she just can’t concentrate on what’s important with all this pushing and shoving. Trust your sex partner to know exactly what she’s doing.

If you want to give her hints, express yourself by moaning or talk to her about it after the pleasure is over. Allowed, however, is a hand that gently takes the mane from her face so she doesn’t have to keep fumbling hair out of her mouth and you have a clear view of the action.

Blowjob nogo number 3: give ambiguous commands

We are still on the topic. Statements like “faster”, “deeper”, “more tongue” or “less teeth” should be avoided during the act. Women might take such commands as criticism of their technique. This is fatal, because once she has the feeling that she’s doing something wrong, she can’t get it out of her head so quickly. So sighs have to be enough as a hint. If you want one of her moves more often, you should hint at it during the subsequent cuddle. For example, say, “I always go wild when you let my best piece go in so deep.”.

Blowjob mistake number 4: go for the silent fish

Imagine you’re trying your best cunnilingus technique and your sweetheart stays silent and doesn’t move an inch. This is exactly how your sex partner feels when you don’t give any feedback. Means: The only thing that may be stiff during the blowjob is your penis. Moaning, sighing, loud breathing – every reaction shows your partner that she is on the right track. If you can’t make a sound because you’re so excited, you can caress her neck, shoulders or forehead. This way you’ll let her know that you’re more than satisfied with your situation.

Bruises after the blowjob? Please don’t! If you are just indulging in some BDSM play together, the woman should never have to take an uncomfortable position while giving a blowjob. If she scrapes her knees or has to squeeze into the tight footwell of the car, she will remember the experience badly. Even though such a blowjob works in many places, you shouldn’t necessarily choose the most uncomfortable one. If your beloved has to kneel, hand her a pillow. You are not at home, but in the restaurant toilet? Then your jacket will have to do.

Blowjob fail number 6: present unwashed facts

Actually, it goes without saying: Hygiene is a must during oral sex. But among women the worst stories about smegma nightmares and disgusting smells still circulate. It seems that some men still have some catching up to do when it comes to cleanliness. Since the blowjob is usually spontaneous, but man can not always jump in the shower beforehand. For this reason alone, we don’t have to explain to you that regular intimate hygiene is important.

However, if you can calculate the blowjob, you should make sure that the lady has the feeling that she sucks on the odorless and tasteless lollipop during the blowjob. Means: shower before (with soap). By the way, it can also be exciting to move the blowjob to the shower as part of the foreplay.

But be careful: please do not shower head and leave the woman too long in the squat position. This hurts the eyes and knees. After the first tasting, you better shift the blowjob to the soft bath mat. By the way: Intimate shaving also makes sense. It is not mandatory to shave, but you should trim the longest pubic comrades, so that they do not curl between their lips.

Blowjob mistake numbero 7: do not deny the finale

With so much devotion from the partner, the desire quickly gets going. Every man is different. While one succeeds in savoring the tongue games for a long time, the other can hardly hold on to himself after just a few tender wet kisses. Because in the heat of the moment all the lights go out quickly, you should definitely agree on the finale before the number. If you ejaculate in the mouth or on the face without being asked, you will either get into trouble or you will have to wait for the next blowjob until the next day.

Discuss beforehand in or on which part of the body you may cum. At the most timid reluctance you should refrain from ejaculating into the mouth. The blowjob takes place so spontaneously that no more arrangement was possible?

Then announce yourself clearly before the conclusion with “I’ll be right there” and leave it up to the woman whether she keeps your best piece in her mouth for the finale or prefers to take it in her hand. In case of doubt you withdraw before (gently!) her lips. 

Blowjob mistake 8: let your sweetheart down

Wow! Such an orgasm during a blowjob can really blow your head off. When all the tension falls away, there is hardly anything better than holding your beloved in your arms and feeling the grandiose sensation. But with all the relaxation you should not forget one thing: Your beloved has not yet had an orgasm. In some cases, women do not even necessarily want a climax. If so, she is sending you clear cuddle signals.

Of course, it’s also possible that you also want her to give you her full attention and have a sexual high-five right now.

Means: it’s time to give her something back. This is the opportunity to train your finger and tongue skills without any pressure of pleasure. You’re still too wrecked after the orgasm? Don’t worry: explain to your sweetheart that you want to concentrate fully on her and that’s why you need a few more minutes to come down again. Then she will know that you have not forgotten her.

Conclusion: Fellatio Fellatio is not only about you

The blowjob is all about you only at first sight. If you want your partner to pleasure you orally more often and more pleasurably, you should avoid the mistakes mentioned during oral sex. The main thing is to make your partner feel good about it.

Prepare well, give her feedback and pay attention to her needs – then the perfect oral sex will succeed. And please never forget: Give back what you were allowed to enjoy – fellatio and cunnilingus are really a very well harmonizing couple.

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